Being in a relationship and having it kept going for the time span required for the life dreamt of it calls for so much input in commitment and patience towards achieve this particular end. At the start, you and your partner will feel so attached and so deeply in love that you may feel that no force under the heavens may separate you two. Nevertheless, hitting the road and live realities setting in, you start drifting apart and you begin feeling the sparkle fizzling down and the connection kind of gets cut.
You are not to despair out of these but should instead opt for reaching for the ways through which you can actually make the relationship stronger and the bond stronger to make it work instead of calling it quits. The one thing that you for sure is that the spark is there for it was there when you first met. The drill is rather simple-simply remember all the good times you had with your partner at the beginning of the relationship and brainstorm all that you enjoy about your partner. This is not going to be as easy for you anyway, but when you are decided to put in as much effort to achieve it, you will certainly see the efforts pay in good dividends of a sparkled relationship. Here are some of the ideas for keeping your friendship full of sparks.
Find time to unplug more often. Technology has often been the culprit for strained relationships as where one gets it more than necessary attention, you may find it causing collapses to your relationship. You will not be able to have an effective communication with a spouse whose attention is wholly o the screen of a laptop or cell phone and as such the frustration grows where you note the fact that you will not be able to pull them off. Cell phones and other communication devices are just the perfect culprits for the common causes of strains in your communication as they take so much of your time off the actual needs of the relationship. Make a deal with your better half to have some time spared in every day spared away from the devices and just have it all fun and talking to each other enjoying your life mate’s company. IN as much it may not be always possible given several other factors, just make it a point to do it at least once in a while to have your relationship going.
Take your relationship to another level with the scheduling of regular date nights. There are services such as Datelivery which will deliver fun and unique date activities to you and these can be used to make the dates planning a lot of fun and easy affair.